"...They
snarl and snap and sound real fierce.
Their teeth they gnash, ready to pierce.
But when, at rest, as the day ends,
You can tell they are the best of friends. "
~~Lizzy
Tomlinson
If
you own a dog these days, and you consider him part of the family,
you have most likely heard of dog parks, and have probably visited
at least one. They are popping up everywhere, it seems. On any
given pleasant day, dog parks teem with canine energy as urban
and suburban dog owners hang out nearby. The dogs get to play
off-leash with each other, and owners get to feel as if they are
allowing the dogs something they sorely need. Plus, regular park-goers
who are not crazy about dogs need not fear the off-leash dog moving
into their space, so everyone is happy...or not.
Dog
parks are like many philosophical and social movements: they sound
great in theory, and even look good on paper, but the reality
often fails to measure up. This becomes patently obvious when
one goes to a dog park on a crowded day. On the surface it seems
harmless enough, but upon closer observation, one might be tempted
to skip it altogether.
I'd
like to examine some of the pros and cons of open, legal, secure
spaces for off-leash dogs:
Pro:
they provide a safely-fenced area for dogs to play and socialize,
unencumbered by leashes
Do
dogs need off-leash play and exercise? Most do. The vast majority
of the dogs owned in this country today are simply not getting
enough exercise. It can be difficult for the average person to
adequately exercise Fido enough every day on a leash to tire him
out. A dog with too much energy is a training nightmare, while
"a tired dog is a good dog." So if one does not own
a fenced yard, having a dog park nearby can save the dog owner's
sanity, at least as far as exercise is concerned. Playing with
other dogs will burn some energy.
Furthermore,
the need for proper socialization cannot be overemphasized. Fearful
tendencies and aggression in dogs are often at least partially
caused by lack of early socialization. The best socialization
happens off-leash, in a larger area where dogs can move about
freely.
Sounds
reasonable, right? But there are definitely some negatives:
Con:
lots of dogs playing together without proper supervision is an
accident waiting to happen
While
the need for proper socialization cannot be overemphasized, the
key here is the word "proper." Some dog experts believe
that the socialization window closes at 12 weeks of age; most
others agree that 3 weeks to 12 weeks of age is the optimal socialization
window, but experience shows that dogs can still be socialized
to their own benefit for many years. Whatever
the case, "proper" socialization is supervised by a
competent adult who is aware of the risks and knows how to maximize
the potential of the encounters. Public dog parks,
which make up the vast majority of local dog parks, do not have
competent supervision ("swim at your own risk"). So
the dog owners, most of whom have untrained dogs with a lot of
pent-up energy, do not know what proper socialization is, and
how to keep their dog out of harms' way.
Most
of the time, owners are either lax in their supervisory roles
(engaging themselves with other owners or talking on cell phones),
or are too vigilant and become concerned (to the point of removing
their dog or chastising other owners) with how the play is going,
even when dogs are playing appropriately.
Bad
encounters with bullying, overexuberant, or communication-deficient
dogs at dog parks can cause severe setbacks for the pet dog, whether
it is your dog doing the bullying or the one being victimized.
These issues can take months, or years, to fix.
Con
#2: Any yahoo with a dog-untrained, aggressive, or a bully--can
come in the dog park
If
you were to sample the population of your local dog park on any
given day, the vast majority of dogs you'd find there would be
largely untrained. Now, they may know some commands, and owners
would probably tell you that Fido can do all manner of things
at home. This could very well be true-but being able to sit and
lie down inside the home does not a trained dog make. Most of
these dogs go ape at the sight of other dogs, and many have no
idea how to play correctly. This is because they are largely sequestered
in houses or yards all day, and do not come in contact with that
many dogs...except at the park.
And
when a dog is rarely exposed to things except in situations where
excitement and arousal are prevalent, he will become quite adept
at becoming aroused quickly and will have a hard time calming
down. For instance, if Fido only gets to be with other dogs at
the rowdy dog park, he doesn't realize that he can be in the vicinity
of other dogs and remain calm and attentive to his owner. He acts
the only way he knows how.
The
untrained dog at the dog park is, at best, an annoyance, and,
at worst, is a menace. Without proper greeting skills and play
know-how, he can terrorize other dogs. Unfortunately, this type
of dog is often owned by the less-than-concerned person, who makes
excuses for Rowdy and refuses to acknowledge that his dog shouldn't
be there. He may be talking on a cell phone, or even chatting
with other humans, but he ain't paying attention to his dog.
Con
#3: Owners are often clueless about what good dog-play looks like
It
is the owners' responsibility to monitor their dogs while in the
park. You need to know your dog's play style, which is often based
a lot on breed, and/or prior play experience. If you don't know
how to read your dog, you won't know when he's telling you he's
anxious and would like to leave, or he's getting aroused and wants
to knock someone around. You may have a bully for a dog, and not
know it. I'll bet many of the more aware owners know it, though.
You don't want to be the reason everyone packs up and leaves the
park.
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| The
classic "body slam" maneuver |
Certain
breeds, and certain personalities, have distinct play styles.
The "bull" breeds (pitbulls, bulldogs, Boxers, etc.)
often play roughly, with lots of body slamming and "hard"
mouths. They will bite at other dogs' necks and backs and legs
during "wrestling" matches, which often come after a
chase sequence. If 2 or more bull breeds are playing together,
this is not a problem as long as they are switching "roles"
often.
Non-bull
breeds are often perplexed by this sort of play, and may become
frightened of it. They may mistake the exuberant bulldog's attempts
at play as threatening, and may snap or snarl to defend themselves*
against an "attack." Or they may attempt to get away
from the offender, which may not work.
Non-bull
breeds like hounds, Shepherds, spaniels, and terriers often do
more chasing than wrestling, but they will wrestle, as well. They
tend to "feint" with air snaps or quick "bites"
to the neck or ears, then dash away to be chased. They don't do
as much slamming into each other as a rule.
"Guard"
breeds like Rottweilers, Dobermans, Mastiffs and even Chows engage
in both types of play, but lean toward bullish play. Retrievers
often fall in the middle; some of the least body-conscious dogs
I've ever known have been Labs, who are bred to withstand heavy
brush and frigid water and will knock the unsuspecting human over
without even slowing down!
Herding
breeds, well, they like to herd the other dogs, often nipping
at heels or flanks in the process.
Con
# 4: Owners who don't know better overlook their bullying dog,
or do not notice that their dog is being bullied by another, or
jump to erroneous conclusions about normal dog play
Many
people tend to overreact to what amounts to regular dog play.
Since dogs don't have hands with which to "tag" each
other, they use their mouths and their bodies. They may snarl
and growl menacingly, bark obnoxiously at other dogs, or look
as if they are going to do some serious damage to the other dog.
I've seen dogs at play grasp other dogs' ears, necks, legs and
backs in their mouths and hang on-all in the name of fun.
Often
this is all harmless and normal, but owners may not know that.
They may get bent out of shape if they feel that their dog is
being victimized, when in fact he is egging on the other dog!
Or, they may ignore their dog as he refuses to play nicely, thus
allowing someone else's dog to be a victim.
It's
pretty annoying to be upbraided by the clueless owner when it
is obvious that the dogs are having fun with each other. (See
red box at right.)
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Fido
and Rover are playing chase-and-wrestle. All is well until
Fido bites on Rover a little too hard, and Rover gives Fido
a good "talking to" by snapping and lunging at
his face (but not connecting). This maneuver is the standard
"back off" signal used by millions of dogs. Fido's
owner runs over, alarmed, and glares at Rover's owner. "Your
dog is aggressive! He just tried to bite my dog!"
Sorry,
lady, but Rover was justified in his display, especially
if he checked himself as soon as he saw Fido backing
off. If someone got in your face and you felt like it
was too much, you'd push him or her away, wouldn't you?
That's all Rover was doing in the above scenario: pushing
Fido away a bit. He was saying, "I'm having fun, man,
but that hurt! Not so hard next time!" Fido probably
got the message just fine, too, and then they started playing
again as if nothing had occurred. The only one who is upset
in this scenario is Fido's owner, who doesn't understand
dog play, or aggression. She may become annoyed and mutter
something about "aggressive dogs shouldn't be allowed
in here" as she stomps off with her dog.
She's
right-aggressive dogs should never enter a dog park. But
what she witnessed was NOT aggression. Too bad for her,
and her dog. |
Here's
another scenario:
Rowdy
is a large, bulky dog who doesn't listen to his owner very well,
even at home. Every time a new dog comes in the park, Rowdy makes
a beeline straight for him, often slamming into the hapless newcomer
head on. On this day, Squirt has just entered, and though he likes
coming to the park, he is not an "in-your-face" kind
of dog at all. He looks up to see Rowdy barreling straight for
him! In an attempt to ward off what he perceives as an imminent
attack, he hits the dirt and gets as low to the ground as he can.
Rowdy pounces on him anyway, completely ignoring this common doggy
signal for "please don't hit me!" Squirt is plainly
frightened, and goes belly up in an attempt to appease the bully.
Rowdy, body stiff and in high arousal mode, stays on top of Squirt,
biting at his face and neck (in what he considers "play mode")
and won't let him up.
Rowdy
needs to be removed from Squirt immediately! He has ignored Squirt's
plain communication and is terrorizing the poor dog. Poor Squirt
will now be a bit more anxious about entering the park, and this
incident could create other problems, too. Not only that, but
Rowdy has furthered his own education in bullying, and practice
makes perfect!
What
about this? Instead of cowering and showing appeasement, what
if Squirt saw Rowdy coming straight for him (an extremely rude
behavior-polite dogs approach from the side, or in a curved path)
and gave a loud snarl, snapped, and lunged at Rowdy to back him
off? Squirt would be absolutely justified in such an act, but
Rowdy's owner would probably erroneously perceive this as an "attack,"
and become angry.
If
Squirt's defense worked, and Rowdy backed off, then there would
be little harm done. If Rowdy ignored even this very loud signal,
there might be a nasty fight, and it would be Rowdy's fault-although
his owner would think differently.
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| Yes, Chihuahuas like to be dogs, too (not fashion accessories). Just keep 'em out of the big dog area! |
Dogs,
as a general rule, do not want to fight. They do many things,
most so quickly that the average person doesn't even notice them,
to avoid confrontation. When a fight occurs, it is often because
one dog ignored the other's signals, or doesn't know what those
signals mean. (The presence of resources around other dogs, and
several untrained, dominant dogs gathered in a small space can
also trigger fights, but that's for another article). The "ignorant"
dog attacks, and the victim tries to defend himself. It's the
last thing you want to have happen at the dog park, or anywhere.
Con
#5: Proper human etiquette is often ignored at the public dog
park
Proper
dog park etiquette states, in part, that:
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Small dogs should only use the small dog area. They can be overwhelmed by larger dogs, even nice ones. |
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Con
#6: Huge size discrepancies can be a real problem.
Small
dogs should have their own space to play where the big dogs can't
go. If your park lacks a separate space for the munchkins, then
don't take your small dog there. He is in danger of being hurt,
and/or scared out of his mind.
Whatever
you do, if your little dog is being picked on, don't pick him
up and stand there! The other dogs will try to attack him, and
he's very vulnerable. Get him out of there, pronto.
Con
#8: Leashes are a hindrance inside the park, and can be dangerous.
It
is patently unsafe to leave a leash and/or training collar on
a dog once he's inside the park. He cannot communicate properly
to the loose dogs when he is leashed, and he may be attacked.
If he is attacked, he will not be able to defend himself.
Training
collars and devices such as head halters and harnesses should
only be worn during training sessions, and not left on inside
the park, because they can get hung on fencing, or on other dogs.
The
dog's regular buckle collar that holds his tags can get hung up
during play, too, but it's more unsafe to leave him without his
primary I.D., even if he is microchipped. Leave that collar on.
It also provides an emergency "handle" if needed.
If
you are paranoid about the dangers of everyday collars, invest
in a "breakaway" collar for use at the dog park.
Wow.
Lots of "cons," and only one "pro." Kind of
depressing, isn't it? If public dog parks are so bad, what is
the pet owner supposed to do to socialize their pooch?
If
you can, find a private dog park. These will have
a fee to join, but they should be a safer bet for your dog. Most
are heavily supervised by competent people, who understand dog
play and play styles, and can restrict the membership to dogs
who pass an evaluation. So you will be dealing with a smaller
pool of dogs, and the chances of any of them being truly aggressive
is slim. Also, you'll know they are all vaccinated, which is important.
A
good-quality doggy daycare is like this, too. (Look for my article
on doggy daycare coming soon.)
If
there are no private dog parks near you, or doggy daycare is not
feasible, but your dog loves to play with other dogs, what can
you do to make the public dog park work for you?
1.
) Learn your dog' play style, and do your best to see that he
pairs up with dogs of a similar style. Try to go at times when
the park is less crowded, and you may be able to build up a small
cadre of like-minded dog owners so that you all can coordinate
your visits.
2.)
Keep your dog safe. If some nitwit and his bullying dog come in,
leave. No, you shouldn't have to. But standing on principle is
meaningless if your dog becomes a basket case because of an untrained
boor.
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The
black and white dog is uncomfortable, and is showing appeasement
to the brown dog. He has turned his head away and is not
looking at the brown dog and has assumed a submissive posture.
(He did warm up eventually.) |
3.)
Leave untrained dogs, shy dogs, small dogs, and easily-aroused
dogs at home. The park should be reserved for genial, affable
dogs-preferably trained-- who generally enjoy playing with other
dogs and do their best to avoid confrontations.
4.)
Train your dog to respond and come to you, even amidst distractions.
This is not always easy, but it is vital. Most owners have virtually
no control over Fido as soon as he's inside that park. This could
be a disaster.
5.)
Walk your dog for a minimum of 30 minutes before you get to the
park. This will tire him some and make him more congenial, and
less threatening. Work on his obedience commands during that walk,
too.
6.)
Try to learn what is acceptable dog play behavior, and what isn't.
As I stated earlier, overweening owners who freak out at the slightest
show of teeth are not suited for the park.
7.)
Observe your dog so that you'll know when he's ready to leave.
Take him home when he's had enough.
8.)
Limit your visits to 2-3 a week, or less. Too much play with other
dogs is not a good thing. It is a very rewarding activity for
most dogs, and you are typically not much of a part of it. You
need to be the obvious source of all good things in your dog's
life.
Mailey E.
McLaughlin, M.Ed.
The Pooch Professor
(2006)
Not to be
reprinted or distributed without author's consent